This is what I have to say about hate. I do not want to have to say this more than once.
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This is what I have to say about hate. I do not want to have to say this more than once.
That’s not right. Not. Fucking. Right.
It’s called morality. Where the fuck did that go? Out the window when you realize that more people look up to somebody than you? When you realize that somebody has worked hard, fucking hard, to get where they are now?
I haven’t even seen this new picture, and I’m already pissed. You couldn’t possibly ask me what I truly feel because I would not be able to put it into words. Nearly at all, but I do know that I have this to say:
People like that make me sick. Like honest to God, I want to throw up, don’t even come near me..sick. What happened to integrity? Sticking up for those weaker, more helpless than you? And well damn, I guess you just totally just disregarded this thing called respect.
Learn it and live it.
That whenever I make a long gif post, either telling a story or just a gif vomit, someone somewhere along the way decides that they’re going to delete either all the text or just leave SHINee gifs in there.
Well fuck.
I know those gifs aren’t mine, but I spent a long time compiling those into a post. It’s your blog, whatever, you post what you want. however when I do get a lot of notes on a post, and then I find out that a lot of the post is GONE, I get really irked. I mean, I kind of would rather have 5 notes on a post if it meant the entire post was going to get it, instead of 55 notes of a post that only has SHINee. I mean, yes I’m a devoted shawol, but I enjoy other fandoms.
When somebody reblogs one of my gif posts, I do suppose it might be a little long, so they wouldn’t want to reblog the entire thing. But then just save them and upload them in your own fucking post. Don’t just take MY time that I spent on it and throw it the fuck away by deleting part of my post.
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No Playboy - Nine Muses
Don’t like this song? Well boo for you, because I love this song .-. But you’re entitled to your opinion, right? However, what I don’t think you’re entitled to is comparing these girls to SNSD. Is that fair? You may think it is, but it’s not.
I understand that you believe in your OT9. Of course, who wouldn’t? Girls Generation? Those girls are amazing. BUT STOP FUCKING COMPARING THESE TWO.
Same number of members? SO FUCKING WHAT. If they had eight people, would you have so many qualms about them then? Highly doubted. You’d like them perfectly fine, or just write them off as another group debuting, (which is also getting out of hand). But no, they had to have nine members.
Photoshoots? They looked the same? WELL THERE’S ONLY SO FUCKING MUCH THEY CAN DO. Nothing is original, or have you not figured that out?
GOD. I hate the hate these girls get just for “trying to copy SNSD”. WELL FUCK, it’s not their decision is it? They’re not the onews ones that choose the outfits for photoshoots, not the choreographers that choreographed the dance you think is oh-so reminiscent of Genie. They’re not the ones who produced the song that you also think is similar to Genie.
I love you guys so much, but I feel like all you guys are under so much pressure and strain. Even though we always see you smiling, happy, and performing with such enthusiasm. Yet when these things come out like Taemin getting bullied at school for being an idol, Onew crying by himself for making mistakes, almost dropping from exhaustion, I feel like it’s all a facade. And of course it is, it’s your job to put on a show and make money for SM.
I feel so bad for all of you and I feel like giving you all massive hugs. I would love to be your shoulder to cry on, or someone you could tell your troubles to. I know that you’ll probably never meet me or read this or anything, but I would still like to let you know that I will always support you in everything that you decide to pursue. Whether it’s to continue singing and performing, acting, or even if you decide to retire from this entire business.
So I guess what I’m trying to get at with this is: I flipping love you guys so much. You all have talent, which is what means you aren’t overrated. You all have such amazing personalities, even if some people say that it’s rude. You all never fail to make me laugh. I could listen to your songs forever, because I never get tired of your amazing voices.
SHINee, I am an eternal SHAWOL and I will never be ashamed to say it. I will forever support you in any endeavor. Thank you for always being yourselves. ♥
But I hate, I absolutely hate, when your opinion isn’t justified. When it isn’t an opinion anymore, but a prejudice. An insult.
Then it becomes an issue with me.
Especially since I do accept nearly everybody’s opinion, regardless of whether it conflicts with mine or not.
I may just be speaking for myself, but I love reading other people’s opinions. I love when they express their feelings and beliefs through words because I think it’s beautiful.
And that brings me to this point: There shouldn’t be anything that prevents us from stating our opinion. Our opinion is ours. It’s called freedom of speech and we have it.
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When that time arrives, it will be a breath of fresh air to finally see our radio stations, music channels, and record bars devoid of those garish pop bands that decimated the musical taste of some individuals.
Wait what? Did you honestly just say that it “decimated the musical taste of some individuals”?
So are you going to say that the people in Korea have no taste in music? Please. Musical taste is preference. Do you really expect everybody to have the same “musical taste” as you? Of course not. So get the fuck over it. It’s called an opinion, and you shouldn’t be bashing others for having it, since you’re voicing yours.
The very life of a Kpop song lies noticeably on one word…which the artists would vocalize repeatedly for the whole duration of the song as if they were kindergarten pupils trying to learn the said word for the first time.
What’s your point? You know that song “OMG” By Usher? It repeats the same letter over and over again. Yet it’s a hit. Are you going to say that that’s like a child in kindergarten learning the alphabet? I bet you aren’t.
Like many other Kpop materials, repetitive,nursery rhyme-like, and moronic lyrics have been their trademark. When sung in public, it will make one look like a person suffering from Tourette’s Syndrome to people around him who are uninitiated in Kpop.
It was one song. Are you seriously going to bash an entire culture’s music because of a single song? You are, right now, stereotyping an entire genre of music based on a single track that you heard somebody singing/humming on public transportation.
From the fancy clothes to the lavishly set production numbers, it dwells so much on the superficial. Instead of being more substantial, Kpop preoccupies itself with extravagant costumes and flashy choreography.
Do some research before you decide to put down the entire genre. Superficial? Well obviously. If they weren’t as good looking as they are, we wouldn’t be attracted. But beyond that, we stick around because they have talent.
Looks attract our attention, of course. It would be ridiculous of me to say that looks didn’t matter. Honestly, they do. But if they couldn’t sing, dance or rap;host a television show effortlessly, make us laugh with everything they do and act in a drama while still rehearsing their choreography, performing on music shows, and going to radio shows, fan meets, yet still finding time to put a smile on their face.
Yeah. No real talent there.
There is no other brand of music than Kpop that has utilized an excessive amount of hairsprays, cosmetics, special effects and lighting.
Okay, now you’ve got to be kidding me with this. They’re called MUSICALS. Are you serious right now? Musicals on Broadway, New York, have a reputation of being, oh, I don’t know, exactly what you’re accusing K-Pop to be. Only on a ever-so-much-higher level.
the major shallowness of Kpop though lies on its artists’ frivolous antics of trying to be cute on camera.
Since when was this a bad thing? Koreans love cute. So why is it so wrong that artists are trying to sell it? After all, it really comes down to the money. I don’t think you’ve grasped that yet.
With their cosmetically enhanced faces, flamboyant attires and cheesy dance moves, Kpop boy bands could be easily mistaken as gay.
I’ve heard someone else say this, but I’m going to also use it in this instance, (since it’s more or less talking about the same thing): Different people have different ideas of what “manliness” really is. So do you think, large, muscular and hairy is what men are really supposed to look like? Well then that’s your opinion. Mine is radically different, and I find these effeminate guys terribly attractive. I’m sorry if my idea of a manly man is someone who’s secure with their sexuality, so they feel free to act like doing things that are stereotypically feminine.
Kpop girl groups all look like Sandara Park. I cannot tell one from another.
This is so typical. It would be the same thing, for me, to say that all Mexicans look the same. Which, obviously, they do not. Because you cannot tell them apart does not mean that they look the same.
I’m just going out on a limb here, but I’d say that you also couldn’t tell strangers apart from strangers. However presumptuous of me that would be.
These are the reasons why Kpop…fans are basically teenagers. Their less mature minds are gullible to stuff like music that is too bubblegum, excessively florid images in their music videos, and pop stars who never mind if they look bading as long as they are cute….At least, I can understand what these [Pinoy bands] are singing, unlike Kpop. While I can tolerate juveniles and females liking Korean pop music, there is definitely something wrong when an adult male becomes wholeheartedly passionate about Kpop. He desperately needs a strong pitik into one of his balls to awaken his manhood.
You have, by now, incited my anger. Thank goodness that you have finished your post. Nothing else needs to be said by you for you to deserve haters for your obvious lack of knowledge about the entire genre. But no, I’m not going to hate on you for it. It’s your opinion, I completely understand that not everybody is going to like K-Pop. That’s fine.
But what I don’t respect you for, is for saying such vulgar things about people that I do respect. What, exactly, is so wrong about a fully grown male to enjoy my genre? This genre that is gaining ground in so many places.
Since when language ever a barrier? So what. We can learn the language, if we want. We are capable of it. Or do you think that our “less mature minds” and “juvenile” brains can’t handle doing so? For example, listening to Classical Music, do we really understand it? There are many interpretations to music, it’s what is beneath the surface, beyond the lyrics, that give it such tenor.
I’d chalk it up to human nature for rejecting the idea of different. Different is always bad, isn’t it? Wrong.
Different is just that: Different. Different does not mean bad. It just means another something to pour our emotions into rejecting.
On that note, I bid you adieu.
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P.S. Oh yeah, it’s sickening to see someone be so prejudiced against people for things you know nothing about. And stop with the stereotypes. The stereotype that only homosexual men would do things that are typically done by females.